A Self-Care Gift Guide For Mother's Day
Mother’s Day is one of my favorite holidays. It’s not only because I’m a mom. It’s nice to see mama love being spread around. It’s also a universal day where the idea of pampering mothers is embraced. Self-care is encouraged! In addition to loving on my fam and the special moms in my life, I recently started treating myself to a lil’ somethin’, somethin’ on Mother’s Day. Whether it’s a new plant, candle, or even a massage, recognition of a job well done is an important component of wellness.
In that spirit, here’s a fun, curated list of self-care gifts to consider for yourself or that special Mom in your life on Mother’s Day. I’ve rounded up quick grabs, one of a kind finds, and dream gift ideas. I hope that you’ll share this list and spread love!
QUICK GRABS
Looking for self-care gifts to grab quickly online? Here’s a few of my favorites from Amazon. Disclosure: My business earns a small commission when you purchase the Amazon products mentioned in this blog post.
NEED TO REST YOUR FEET?
I love these cozy slippers & live in them.
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WANT A REMINDER OF HOW INCREDIBLE YOU ARE?
Look at this calming affirmation deck of 40 positive and inspirational cards for women. It includes powerful mantra statements like “I am as resilient as the sun. I will always rise again,” and “My authentic self is my most powerful state.” The Renegade Mama’s Women’s Empowering Deck is a colorful option. Their Postpartum Affirmation Deck is also a great gift for new moms.
NEED A MASSAGE?
This TheraGun massager is THE TRUTH. Used by athletes, it’s very powerful, so keep it away from the kids. The hand-held device unleashes knots and soothes sore muscles, like a professional massage therapist. It’s pricey, but well worth it if you have tight muscles or workout frequently, like I do. If you’re looking for a more economical option, check out this shoulder and neck heating pad, which may help if you spend a lot of time at your computer.
WANT SOME PAMPERING?
Enjoy a mini-escape with these beauty products:
-FaceTory Facial Mask Collection: 7 different facial sheet masks designed to hydrate and soothe your skin. They also offer anti-aging sheet masks with jojoba oil. These fab K-Beauty products are gluten, phthalates and cruelty-free.
-Jade Roller & Gua Sha Rose Quartz Massager: Get your face roll on! This roller and massage gift set helps to reduce bags and puffy eyes, while relaxing your facial muscles.
-Mario Badescu Facial Spray Set: Feel fresh and reinvigorated with this spray set. One spritzer is made with cucumber and green tea, the other is filled with herbs and rosewater. Use it as a hydrating refresher, or to set makeup.
-Bombelalala Bath Bombs: I dig the name of these cutie pie, super-sized bath bombs. I also like that they are made with clean ingredients and essential oils. Produced by an all-female crew, this tuxedo styled gift box includes moisturizing bath bombs with names like: “Oceans 11,” reminiscent of the sun and sea, “The Big Easy,” a lavender scent, and “Drama Queen” with plum, champagne, and grapefruit.
Not today…
NEED SOME WINE?
-Portable Wine Table: Treat your mom friends (or yourself) to an outdoor kickback session-wine included! Whether it’s a socially distanced picnic with your besties, a family day, or cuddled up your person, celebrate your special day in style. Try this portable wine and champagne table, with room to place appetizers! You can also opt for a sleeker style, or step up date night (at home or outside under the stars) with this romantic, cylinder shaped picnic basket.
WANT TO SET SOME BOUNDARIES?
-Let ‘em know by filling up your THOU SHALL NOT TRY ME wine glass ;) Or play it safe by keeping your bubbly protected in these insulated and unbreakable stemmed wine goblets.
ONE OF A KIND GIFTS:
If you’re looking for more personalized or unique items, check out these homegrown, creations from a few of my favorite women (and some mom) owned businesses:
GET YOUR PLANTS:
QUEEN is a Los Angeles based-plant haven is favored by locals and celebs alike, including Issa Rae and Mara Brock Akil. Go for the cool, ever-changing variety of plants and bright hand-painted pots. Pick up your plants or schedule a delivery. Black mama owned. SHOP
STACK YOUR CASH, CLEAR THE ENERGY & FEEL LOVE:
Tired of waiting for Harriet Tubman’s image to land on the $20 bill? The wait is over! Check out artist Rebecca Brie’s amazing new St. Harriet wallet. She didn’t stop there. She also created St. Harriet candles in different energy clearing colors. And while you’re at it, why not pick up one of her classic, Sade inspired, “Love Is King” greeting cards. SHOP
DRINK YOUR TEA:
If you’re a fan of organic, loose leaf tea blends that come in pretty packages, gift your favorite mama with Mothering Tea. The Georgia-based tea company helps moms reconnect with themselves by drinking these tasty blends. Flavors include “Calming Mint” and “Mommy Bliss,” with lemongrass, citrus, and hibiscus. Tea boxes come with a mug, steeper, and an invite to a virtual tea time for moms. SHOP.
GET YOUR REST:
If you follow me on Instagram, you know that my brand, Mommafied, is all about health, wellness and self-care. A big part of feeling like your most optimal self is getting the rest that you need and deserve. Sleep is not a luxury, but it can feel like that sometimes for busy women and moms. REST! Make it quality and fun with Mommafied SLEEP MASKS. Inspired by a gift given to me from my daughter, our masks are soft, cozy and help tired mamas get quality sleep. SHOP
SALUTE YOUR FRIENDS:
With all of the pandemic juggling, moms have not only survived, but helped their families thrive. Let them know that you see their magic! Celebrate your mom friends with hand-crafted greeting cards from Around the Way Mom. Krystal Henry, a Baltimore-based mom blogger, has created sweet and entertaining cards that include pop-culture references like “You’re the Tia to my Tamera, Gina to my Pam…” Grab some for your besties! SHOP
CELEBRATE YOUR FAVORITE MAMA, OR YOURSELF:
If you’re truly hunting for a one of a kind keepsake, get an art piece commissioned by Skyler. The bold and eclectic artist creates portraits that you would see in your dreams. They can be bright and colorful, or calm and serene. Share your vision with her and she’ll create it. Her multimedia designs always have a touch of magic, funk, and fantasy. I ordered portraits of my children from the L.A. based mom and she turned them around in no-time! Contact Skyler on Instagram. Check out her work HERE.
DREAM GIFT IDEAS:
Let’s keep it real, in a perfect world, here’s what busy moms REALLY WANT in the self-care department for Mother’s Day. Here’s a few options if your budget or COVID has put your dream gifts on pause:
DREAM: A full-time maid!
REALITY: Gift mom with a one-time housekeeper, or a few monthly visits.
DREAM: A day at the spa with all of the treatments!
REALITY: Gift mom with 1 hour-long professional massage treatment, or DIY.
DREAM: A meditative retreat!
REALITY: Download the Chopra app, full of daily meditations. There’s a free and paid version.
DREAM: An international vacation!
REALITY: Treat mom to a solo day or weekend in a hotel. Many local hotels are still rebounding and are offering low rates. Let her sleep late and order room service! You could also create a mock hotel room at home. Serve mom a meal in bed. Close the door and allow her to relax, uninterrupted for a few hours.
DREAM: A personal chef!
REALITY: Help mom with dinner by ordering a pre-made meal delivery service for a few days or a week. We recently tried Daily Harvest. Their vegan meals are tasty and great for breakfast or lunch if you enjoy smoothies, soups or harvest bowls. It saved me tons of time and energy in the kitchen. I also heard that Freshly, Purple Carrot and Territory Foods are also solid clean eats.
DREAM: A professional organizer!
REALITY: Do it! If your favorite mom wants to get her house, closet, pantry, or office organized, don’t wait. Book an online session with The Green Domestic Fairy, created by Kesia Hosking. The London-based decluttering and organizing expert specializes in low-toxic solutions. For 15 years, she’s helped busy professionals transform their lives.
DREAM: A fit, healthy & strong body!
REALITY: If pandemic juggling hasn’t left mom time to get to the gym, consider a virtual gym or class membership. I love my women’s online virtual gym. It comes with a supportive, non-judgmental accountability group, tons of quick, results-driven workout options, and a game changing nutrition plan. DM me on Instagram to learn more!
Happy Mother’s Day With Love!
Chie, Creator of “Mommafied”